The Unmerciful Servant Audio
I think we can all relate to this story. We empathise with the poor servant who only owes a few dollars and is thrown into gaol by the culprit of the story. We feel his sense of powerlessness. We feel the outrage of the other servants as they see this injustice being played out. We cheer when the master finds out and justice is finally done.
I wonder though, how often we find ourselves relating to the unmerciful servant? Could it be that Jesus is telling this story to warn us?
You know there’s a danger with a catchy story like this. That is, it’s so easy to take it out of context; to read it as a standalone event. But in fact it’s not.
Do you see how the story starts? Peter has asked Jesus a question. But it’s a question that arises from the previous discussion. There Jesus has jumped from the parable of the lost sheep to bring his point home to the lost person in the congregation who needs to be brought back into fellowship. Jesus has been talking about the question of discipline in the church. What do you do if someone in the church offends someone else? What do you do if someone breaks the rules, spoken or unspoken? What do you do if someone causes a breakdown in relationships with the congregation? The answer Jesus gives is that first you gently confront them in the hope that they repent and are restored to fellowship with you. If that doesn’t work then you take a couple of witnesses along and only if that fails do you take it to the whole church.
But Peter’s been around for a while and he knows the sort of behaviour you can expect from some people. He says: “Yes, but what if someone sins against me over and over again?” I guess we’ve all experienced this. Someone does something to you, but then they apologise, They’re really sorry! They didn’t realise. It won’t happen again. And of course it does! The very next week! And the whole process gets repeated. It doesn’t take long to get sick of that does it? It doesn’t take long before you begin to wonder whether you’re being taken advantage of; whether your kindness is wasted on this good-for-nothing so-and-so. That seems to be what Peter’s thinking.
So Peter asks, “Where do we stop? What’s the limit?” “Can we put a number on it? How about 7 times?” Now notice that he’s understood what Jesus has been saying. He wants to be a frequently forgiving person. But the weakness of his question is the thought that there might be limits on Christian forgiveness. What he’s forgotten is that at the heart of Jesus’ gospel is the understanding that wherever there’s repentance there will always be forgiveness.
So Jesus immediately corrects this misconception. “Not seven times but seventy-seven times” or “Seventy times seven” some versions have. That is, forever. More times than you can count. Unlimited forgiveness because that’s what God’s forgiveness is like.
This goes against our natural instincts, doesn’t it? Our natural desire when we’re hurt is for revenge. We love stories of vengeance. We love to see the wicked caught out, the con man conned, the murderer punished. It’s one of the great themes of movies and TV shows.
But here’s the interesting thing about this parable. The popular media teaches that it’s heroic to take revenge. Jesus teaches that it’s more heroic to conquer revenge, to forgive, even if it costs us dearly; to leave revenge to God’s final judgement. And he shows us, in a very graphic way, why this is the case. He tells them a parable that illustrates why Jesus expects unlimited forgiveness from us.
There’s a king who comes to settle accounts with his servants. One person is brought in who owes him 10,000 talents. Now a talent of silver was worth about $100,000 in today’s terms. So it’s an outrageous amount. Absolutely unpayable. So the king orders him to be sold into a debtor’s prison along with the rest of his family. Well, the servant falls to his knees and begs for time to repay. Now that in itself is a bit of a joke because the amount he owes is roughly 2,000 year’s pay, so there’s no way he could ever repay his debt. But still, he begs for mercy and to his amazement his master has pity on him. He forgives the entire debt.
Now put yourself in this man’s shoes. He’s been sentenced to be sold into slavery along with his whole family, he owes an unpayable debt and now the king has written it all off. He’s a free man again. He’s asked for patience and for a chance to repay the debt and he’s got infinitely more than he asked for: amnesty and a complete remission of the debt. He’s received a forgiveness he didn’t dare to ask for.
Now remember that this is a parable about us. What Jesus is saying is that each of us has amassed an unpayable debt before God. That may not be something you’ve ever thought about. Most people if you ask them what God might think of them will say something like “Oh I’ve lived a pretty good life. I’ve never done much that was really wrong. I try to help my neighbour. I don’t think God would think too badly of me.” But here Jesus is saying the debt of sin we’ve each built up is running into billions, if not zillions. There’s no way you could ever repay it, ever make up for it. But then comes the amazing news of the gospel: God is a gracious King who willingly remits our debt, who gives us free and unconditional forgiveness, wipes the slate clean, so we can walk away free. That is good news, isn’t it?
But, as is so often the case in Jesus’ parables, the story doesn’t end there. There’s a sting in the tail. With the receiving of forgiveness comes the responsibility of the forgiven.
So what happens? The servant leaves the king’s presence and runs into a fellow servant who owes him a small amount of money, a couple of thousand dollars perhaps, a mere pittance compared to the amount he owed the King. And what does he do? Does he share his good fortune with him and forgive his debt in turn? No! He grabs him by the neck and orders him to pay the lot.
Now you can imagine the incredulity that this turn to the story would have raised among the first hearers. We feel the same don’t we, even having heard it many times before? How could anyone act like this so soon after getting such a reprieve from the king? Even when his fellow servant gets down on his knees he doesn’t relent. He doesn’t show any mercy or pity. Despite the mercy he’s been shown by the king, he shows none to his fellow servant.
As is often the case in these parables the end of the story is a dire warning for us. The man refuses to give his fellow servant time to repay the debt, but throws him into prison, where of course he’ll never be able to repay it. But
He’s made a mistake, hasn’t he? Do you see it? The mistake he’s made is more than simple ingratitude. What he’s forgotten is not just that the king has forgiven his great debt, but that the king is still the king; that the king’s job is to maintain justice in his realm.
The other servants don’t forget it though. In their distress at this injustice, they go and tell the king about it. The king calls the man in and says “You wicked servant. I forgave you all that debt, just because you asked me. And yet you couldn’t show mercy on your fellow slave!?” And he’s so angry with him that he hands him over to be tortured until he pays the lot. “This”, says Jesus, “is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” It’s a chilling reminder, isn’t it?
This is a repeated message in the gospels. (Mat 6:15) "if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Mat 7:2) "For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get." So we mustn’t take it lightly. Our forgiveness is in a sense dependant on our willingness to forgive others.
So does that mean we have to earn our forgiveness after all? Does forgiving others make us worthy to be forgiven? It could sound like that, couldn’t it, if we weren’t careful. But there’s two things that we should notice about this parable. First of all the servant’s debt is forgiven right at the outset. It’s the fact upon which the rest of the story hangs. And secondly the debt is so great that no amount of forgiveness of others’ debts could ever equal it. So there’s no sense that his response to his fellow servant somehow repays his own debt. No, the remission of that debt is a free gift from the king.
So why does the king change his mind? What’s so drastically wrong with what the servant has done? Well, it shows that he’s failed to take up the style of life, the sort of character, that the king expects in his subjects. The king’s mercy is meant to be reflected throughout the kingdom. If this servant were a true follower of the king then he’d show the characteristics that the king puts great value on: in this case, mercy and forgiveness. So his forgiveness of others isn’t so much a condition of his being accepted as a faithful servant, as it is a sign that that’s what he is.
Let me give you an illustration of what I’m trying to say. Remember the story of King Solomon when he first became King and he asked God for wisdom? The very next day two prostitutes come before him. They’ve both had babies, but one of them claims that the other’s child has died and she’s switched the babies on her. No-one was present at the time so there’s no way of proving whose child is whose. Do you remember what Solomon does? He says “Bring me a sword.” He says he’ll cut the baby down the middle and they can have half each. The real mother of course says, “No. Don’t kill him! Give the living baby to her.” While the other one stupidly says, “Go ahead and cut him in two then neither of us will have him.” It’s quite clear from that who the mother is, isn’t it? But let me ask you this: did she become the mother by giving Solomon the right answer? No! Did the right answer in any way affect the truth of her claim? No! It certainly helped Solomon discern the truth but it in no way affected that truth, did it? Her motherhood came from a prior event - from giving birth to the baby. And it’s the same when we think about this parable. Forgiving one another because God first forgave us helps us discern the truth of our relationship to God, but it doesn’t determine it. Our relationship to God comes from the prior event of God’s forgiving us our unpayable debt of sin. His requirement that we then respond with mercy and forgiveness towards others is to show that we’ve truly changed sides. In other words it’s a sign that the repentance that accompanied the forgiveness was genuine, and that we’re now relating to God with the awe and reverence that our respective positions warrant.
So, here we have both a reminder of just how great God’s love and mercy is and a warning about the need to respond appropriately, to demonstrate by our attitude to others that we’ve truly joined God’s family.
You know we pray the prayer of repentance every week and are reminded of God’s unfailing love and grace that continues to forgive us, even if we’ve confessed the same sin over and over again. But it mustn’t stop there. We need to respond every time with a determination to turn away from sin. That’s what the word repent means: changing direction, looking to imitate God’s righteous response to others.
So while we must never condone sin or ignore it, when the sin is against us, we’re to follow the example of our Lord and King, to forgive unreservedly and without limit. We’re to be so overwhelmed by God’s love and forbearance that we can’t help but be loving and forbearing towards one another. If we’re Kingdom people then the way we relate will be the way the King relates. We’ll show by our lives that there are no limits to forgiveness in God’s kingdom.
Perhaps it would be an interesting thing for each of us to go home today and think about those people we have a problem with, a grudge against, or who’ve done some wrong towards us, and to think about the possibility of showing them the level of forgiveness that God shows us week after week after week.
